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A |     Editor's Note:
With China's population of seniors over 60 surpassing 300 million, ensuring a happy and fulfilling life for all seniors has become a pressing issue for both families and the nation. How can the new generation of seniors in China break away from traditional norms and embrace a different lifestyle, supported by AI technology, multiculturalism and an elder-friendly society? 
The series "Old Age, New Trends" explores emerging trends in the silver economy, creative social norms among senior citizens and innovative eldercare services. It examines the opportunities and challenges presented by an aging society, highlighting the diverse lifestyles of seniors and the booming eldercare industry in China. Beneath these new trends lies a reflection of Chinese modernization, which aims to provide more secure systems and dignified lives for its senior population.

    Chinese elderly tourists pose for a photo during a trip to Antarctica. Photo: Courtesy of Zhang XinyuanThe camera moves across ice and water of Greenland before settling on a group of travelers speaking Putonghua. Many are retired. They have come a long way from China to a place that, for much of their working lives, belonged more to maps and documentaries than to any realistic travel plan.
Polar journeys require money, good health and patience for long flights and itineraries that may change with the weather. Yet on ships bound for Antarctica, and tours reaching into the Arctic, retired teachers, doctors, researchers and business managers are becoming easier to find. 
After decades scheduled around work and family, they now possess something that was once just as scarce as money: uninterrupted time.
By the end of 2025, China had 323.38 million people aged 60 or above, accounting for 23 percent of its population, according to the Xinhua News Agency. Their incomes, health and family circumstances vary enormously, and polar travelers remain a small, relatively affluent group. Still, their choices bring one change into sharp focus: For some among this new generation of retirees, growing older no longer means simply drawing the boundaries of life inward. It may also be a chance to return to journeys postponed for decades.
Behind every such journey lies a practical calculation: Is the body ready? Is the expense manageable? Can family responsibilities be set aside long enough? The answers are reshaping both travel products and ideas about life after work. At the farthest reaches of the map, some Chinese retirees are asking a new question: With their careers behind them and years still ahead, where do they want to go next?
No longer waiting
In early 2025, 63-year-old He Man stood on a snow-covered slope at Port Charcot in Antarctica and looked back toward the sea. 
The Silver Endeavour, the ship that had brought her there, had shrunk to a white speck against the blue water. Penguins wandered nearby. "Standing there, I suddenly realized how small I was - and how small my problems were," she told the Global Times.
It was a journey He Man had postponed for most of her adult life. Before retiring, she was a deputy chief physician at the dental center of Shenzhen People's Hospital in Shenzhen, South China's Guangdong Province. During her 38-year medical career, most days she got up at 6 am, arrived at the hospital around 7 and began seeing patients at 8. On busy days, patients queued up outside her consulting room and she could barely stop for a drink of water.
During the last 20 years of her career, she had no more than 15 days of annual leave each year. Once time was set aside for caring for elderly relatives and looking after her child, what remained was enough only for short trips. She had visited several countries in Europe and North America, but Antarctica remained beyond reach.
"Antarctica had always been a dream, but I never really dared to imagine going," she said. The possibility became real only after friends from university made the journey in 2023 and 2024 and encouraged her to follow. By then, she had retired at 60. More important than anything else, she said, was that her time was finally her own.
In October 2024, she booked a place on an expedition ship carrying about 200 passengers. She went with her husband, a neighboring couple and another couple with whom they often traveled, forming a group of six. 
The early-booking cruise fare exceeded 150,000 yuan ($22,250) per person. She and her husband later paid another 40,000 yuan each to upgrade their flights to business class.
"On a journey this long, at our age, we should treat ourselves well," she said. The flights between China and South America alone took more than 30 hours. The entire journey eventually lasted 41 days, combining an 11-day Antarctic cruise with visits to Argentina, Brazil, Peru and Chile. "Since we had flown so far, we wanted to see it all in one go."
The journey began with a lesson in polar uncertainty. To catch a period of calmer weather across the Drake Passage, the ship moved its scheduled departure from noon to 6 am. 
The couple reached the port in Chile before dawn after barely sleeping, only to learn that replenishment and repairs had taken longer than expected. The weather window closed, and the captain diverted through the Beagle Channel while waiting two days for conditions to improve.
The retired doctor did not regard the delay as time lost. Marine biologists, ornithologists, geologists and polar historians delivered lectures on board throughout the day, while passengers watched the fjords outside. "There were many older people on the ship. We had time, and nobody was really in a hurry," she said.
When she finally stepped onto the Antarctic snow, she said she was so overwhelmed that she wanted to cry. The trip did not remove the pressures waiting for her at home, but it changed the scale on which she viewed them. 
"When I feel stressed or upset now, I think of Antarctica," she said. "Life is only so long. Don't hold yourself too tightly. Let go when you should."
    Scenery of Antarctica Photo: Courtesy of Zhang XinyuanBeyond one journey
According to He Man, people aged 60 or above accounted for more than half of the passengers on board, while Chinese travelers also made up more than half. After returning home, some of the travelers from Shenzhen created a WeChat group, while others had already begun discussing their next destination.
Travel agencies specializing in expedition cruises have noticed the same pattern. Zhang Xinyuan, founder and CEO of Newayer Cruises, told the Global Times that the company entered the Antarctic market in 2008 and sent its first group the following year. It has since served approximately 6,000 travelers on trips to the Arctic and Antarctica. 
Among its customers, more than 65 percent are aged over 50, with those between 55 and 65 forming the largest group.
The makeup of that group has changed. Before 2020, Zhang said, most of the agency's polar customers were private business owners, senior executives and their family members. In recent years, the professional backgrounds of its customers have become more varied, with retired teachers, doctors, researchers and managers from public institutions increasingly represented. Retired women traveling alone have also become more visible.
Their journeys do not necessarily end after one polar voyage. Zhang once regarded Antarctica as a once-in-a-lifetime destination, but found that some customers continued on to the Arctic, the Galapagos Islands or wildlife reserves in Africa. 
She cited a recently retired couple who booked trips to both Antarctica and the Arctic. While still aboard the Arctic cruise, they asked to reserve places on a southern Africa itinerary planned for the following year.
Industry data suggest that this is a growing, though still expensive, segment of the travel market. During the 2024-25 Antarctic season, Chinese nationals accounted for 10 percent of passengers traveling with operators belonging to the International Association of Antarctica Tour Operators, or IAATO, the second-largest share after the US. 
In the 2025-26 season, IAATO operators recorded 85,195 visitors who landed in Antarctica and another 27,217 cruise-only passengers. The association said China had seen the greatest post-pandemic increase among the main sources of Antarctic travelers. 
Data released by Tongcheng Travel offer a closer view of the high-end market. From January to September 2025, travelers aged between 50 and 70 accounted for more than 70 percent of users booking outbound luxury cruises on the platform. Among customers purchasing polar cruise products priced above 100,000 yuan, more than 90 percent were classified by the company as silver travelers.
As the customer base changes, the product is changing with it. Zhang said the longest flights, rather than the cruise itself, often present the greatest physical challenge. On board, travelers can decide whether to join shore landings, hikes or Zodiac cruises according to their physical fitness and health condition. 
At Newayer Cruises, travelers aged between 75 and 80 are generally asked to provide medical documentation and travel with a family member. Its group products include emergency medical and evacuation insurance, while tour leaders accompany passengers from departure.
The agency has also added Chinese-language services and meals familiar to Chinese passengers, while leaving more space in itineraries rather than packing each day with activities. Flexibility is needed for reasons beyond the traveler's own health. 
    A ship sails among icebergs in Antarctica. Photo: VCGThe Arctic can wait
Polar travel occupies the expensive outer edge of a much broader change in how older Chinese people spend their time. By the end of 2025, China had 323.38 million people aged 60 or above, accounting for 23 percent of the population. Those aged 65 or above numbered 223.65 million, or 15.9 percent. 
The National Bureau of Statistics noted that people aged between 60 and 64 made up a relatively large part of the older population, and that many were still healthy and participated in social activities. 
Travel is becoming one outlet for this age group. Data cited by the National Development and Reform Commission show that older travelers account for more than 20 percent of China's total tourist numbers. 
Du Peng, dean of the School of Population and Health and director of the Institute of Gerontology at Renmin University of China, noted in a CCTV interview that more than 20 million people would enter old age each year over the following decade. Compared with earlier generations, he said, many would be better educated, assess their own health more positively and use the internet with greater ease. 
Policy is beginning to respond to this more varied picture of old age. A State Council document on developing the silver economy calls for replacing rigid age restrictions on travel with assessments based more closely on health, while expanding travel insurance and strengthening consumer protection. 
Still, the retirees boarding polar ships should not be treated as a portrait of all 323 million older Chinese people. They are a relatively small group able to meet three demanding conditions at once: sufficient savings, good health and control over their time.
Therefore, what these polar travelers demonstrate is not that every retirement should become an expensive adventure. Rather, they show that later life is becoming less uniform: rest and care remain essential, but for some people, retirement may also contain study, creative work, new friendships and journeys once postponed by jobs and family obligations.
Back in Shenzhen, He Man now divides her Xiaohongshu (RedNote) posts between dental-health advice and notes from her travels. Antarctica has been crossed off the list, but the list itself continues to grow. 
She is considering a trip to see the animal migration in Africa and another to watch the aurora in Iceland. The Arctic is lower down on her list.
The Arctic can wait. This time, the delay is hers to decide.

。    如果投降能换40万人活命，你会怎么选？1940年丘吉尔给出了回答    四十万人被赶到了海边。    身后是英吉利海峡，前面是一路追过来的德国装甲部队。英国陆军最能打的一批人基本都陷在法国北部，能带回家的重装备已经顾不上了，现在先考虑的是人还能回来多少。    偏偏就在这个时候，英国政府里面有人提出了一条听起来并不荒唐的路：既然法国眼看撑不住了，意大利又还没有正式参战，能不能请墨索里尼从中搭个桥，先问问希特勒愿意开什么条件？    提出这个主张的人不是无名小卒，而是英国外交大臣哈利法克斯。        丘吉尔刚当上首相十几天。    如果他点头，英国未必马上投降，却很可能就此坐上谈判桌；如果他不点头，敦刻尔克那几十万官兵能不能撤回来，当时没人敢保证。    后来的人知道英国赢了，所以很容易说一句：当然要打。    可站在1940年5月底，答案真没那么好选。

B |         今天看二战地图，1940年春天的西欧像被人一把推倒了。    5月10日，德军进攻荷兰、比利时、卢森堡和法国，同一天丘吉尔接替张伯伦出任英国首相。

C | 没过多久，德军从阿登山区冲出来，英法原先依赖的防线被从侧后方切开。德军装甲部队一路抵达英吉利海峡，几十万盟军被挤进法国北部一个越来越小的区域。    最后能跑的地方，只剩敦刻尔克。

D |         当时聚集在这一带的盟军接近40万人。英国最初制定撤退计划时，甚至没有幻想全部带回来，能够撤出几万人，已经算给英国陆军留下一点骨血。最终从5月26日至6月4日撤回英国的英法等国官兵超过33.8万人。    可是5月底内阁争论最厉害的时候，这个奇迹还没有发生。

E |         桌上的坏消息一个接一个。比利时已经准备退出战争，法国的局面越来越差，美国尚未参战，苏联与德国之间还有互不侵犯条约，墨索里尼则站在场外等着挑一个最有利的时机下场。    英国人当然知道自己隔着一道英吉利海峡，可海峡挡得住陆军，不等于挡得住飞机和潜艇。    哈利法克斯因此主张试试外交渠道。他考虑的是借意大利斡旋，看看德国究竟会提出什么条件。如果英国的独立和基本利益可以保住，为什么连条件都不能听？    站在普通人的位置，这个问题一点不丢人。    几十万年轻人堵在海滩上，法国可能退出战争，本土下一步就可能挨炸。能花一点外交代价把战争停下来，很多人都会心动。    丘吉尔真正和哈利法克斯争的，也正是这里。            所谓“投降”，当时还没有发展到希特勒拿着一份现成条约，让英国在签字和40万人死亡之间二选一。    内阁争的是另一件更加现实的事：要不要在英国最虚弱的时候主动去摸德国的和谈条件。    这两者差别很大。    丘吉尔对谈判最警惕的一点，是谈判桌上的筹码。

F |     英国远征军被困，法国濒临崩溃，德国刚刚横扫西欧。此时希特勒有什么理由给英国开一个特别宽松的条件？        一旦英国主动表现出急于退出战争，德国要求限制英国军备、控制重要基地甚至削弱皇家海军，都不是没有可能。

G | 英国或许能够暂时躲过一场本土战争，却可能把下一次反抗德国的能力一起交出去。

H |     丘吉尔后来把这种担忧说得很重：继续打下去的国家，将来还有重新站起来的机会；轻易屈服，结局可能完全不同。新华网关于不列颠空战的战史文章也提到，英国战时内阁当时围绕德国方面的“和平”建议连续讨论，英国国内确实存在强烈的反战求和情绪。

I |     丘吉尔并不是算不出来敦刻尔克可能死人。        他算的是另一笔账。    今天停战，几十万士兵也许能暂时避免成为战俘或者死在法国；可英国一旦丢掉独立作战能力，几年以后还有没有第二次选择的机会？    这才是他最不愿赌的东西。    有意思的是，丘吉尔同时也没有把敦刻尔克的人扔掉。    拒绝向希特勒低头和拼命把军队撤回来，是同时进行的。        英国海军启动“发电机行动”，军舰、运输船、渔船、游艇乃至大量民用小船开始横渡海峡接人。最初英国方面只敢指望撤回数万人，最后超过33万官兵回到英国。丘吉尔随后还专门提醒国内，撤退本身并不是胜利，战争也不可能靠撤退打赢。    这个细节很重要。

J |     他没有选“40万人去死”。

K |     他选的是：人尽量救，仗继续打。

L |         33万多人回到英国时，大量火炮、车辆和重装备都丢在了欧洲大陆。

M | 许多士兵踏上英国土地以后，自己都觉得这是一场狼狈逃跑。    从纯军事结果看，敦刻尔克当然是一场败退。    可这批人回来以后，英国至少还有一支能够重新整编的陆军。    更关键的东西也还没有丢。        皇家海军仍然是一支强大力量，英国皇家空军还没有被摧毁，德国要跨越海峡登陆英国，靠坦克在法国跑得快解决不了问题。希特勒必须先争夺制空权，否则运输船队到了海峡，很可能先让英国海空力量打掉。    因此1940年夏天的英国，确实很危险，却远没有危险到只能签投降书。    敦刻尔克结束以后，丘吉尔判断德国下一步会对英国本土下手，英国随后把越来越多资源投入防空和反击准备。不列颠空战真正打起来后，皇家空军没有像德国希望的那样迅速垮掉。

N | 英国保住了继续作战的基础，德国原本准备的登陆英国计划最终也没能实施。    这时候再看5月底那场争论，丘吉尔当初的算盘就清楚了。

o |     德国最强的时候，你跑去问德国：“怎样才能放过我？”    得到的条件，大概率不会便宜。        英国只要再撑几个月，让德国证明自己无法轻易跨过英吉利海峡，双方手里的筹码就会变化。

p |     丘吉尔选择的其实是拖。    把英国最虚弱的这几个月硬熬过去。    代价当然很大。英国城市后来遭到轰炸，大量军民伤亡，战争又持续了整整五年。

q | 谁如果在1940年就保证英国一定能撑到最后，那是在拿结果倒推过程。    丘吉尔自己当时同样不知道美国什么时候正式参战，不知道希特勒后来会进攻苏联，更不知道1945年柏林会插上苏军的红旗。

r |     他只是认定一件事：现在去谈，英国手里的牌太烂。        这才是这个故事最有意思的地方。    我们习惯把选择想成两格。    一格写着“战争”，里面是死亡。    一格写着“和平”，里面是活命。        真实历史很少这么体贴。    1940年的英国如果选择谈判，敦刻尔克的军人是不是就肯定能够全部安全回家？德国究竟会开出怎样的条件？英国海军、海外基地、军备和外交自主权需要交出去多少？希特勒又会不会长期遵守协议？    这些问题当时都没有现成答案。    法国很快给出了另一种参照。    1940年6月，法国战败并签署停战协定。

s | 德国控制法国北部和西部大片地区，法国政府退到维希。

t | 这个结果显然不是简单的“停止打仗以后大家照常生活”。    丘吉尔怕的就是英国走上类似的路。    英国还有海峡，还有皇家海军，还有空军，还有庞大的海外资源。手里的东西明明没有全部输光，却因为欧洲大陆的一次惨败自己先把牌桌掀了，在他看来才是最亏的一笔买卖。    所以那场著名的决定，真正值得记住的地方并非“一个强硬领袖宁愿40万人死也不投降”。    这样讲反而把事情讲浅了。        丘吉尔没有拿40万人的命去换自己的强硬名声。他一边拒绝在德国最占优势的时候主动求和，一边发动当时英国能够发动的一切船只，把能抢回来的人拼命往家里抢。    最后抢回来了33万多人。    这些人后来成了英国继续战争的重要家底。    6月4日，敦刻尔克撤退基本结束。丘吉尔站到英国下议院，讲出了那段后来无数次被引用的话：英国会在海滩、登陆场、田野和街道继续战斗。    放到今天听，很容易觉得这是胜利者写好的台词。    放回那个星期，它其实带着很大的赌性。    法国马上就要倒下，德国军队正站在英吉利海峡另一边，英国刚刚把几十万败兵从欧洲大陆捞回来。    丘吉尔不知道结局。        他只是觉得，与其把国家的命运交给希特勒开条件，不如把手里剩下的牌继续打完。    五年以后，人们知道了他的选择带来了什么。    可如果把时间重新拨回1940年5月，敦刻尔克海滩上还有近40万人等船，德国坦克正在逼近，而你坐在那间内阁会议室里——    这支笔交到你手上，你真的会毫不犹豫吗？返回，查看更多。

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